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Lens Not Label

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16 October 2026


Happy Friday, Reader. So many updates to share this time, so let's dive in!

For this week's lens on neurodiversity, we're going back to basics and asking: What is a lens? What is a label? And why do we need both?

Here's a quick bit on each + some practical usage tips (adapted from Lens Not Label):

Labels name an experience; lenses help us see it

A label is a short description of a person’s experience or identity, whether that's a diagnosis (Autism, ADHD, Dyslexia), a trait (Highly Sensitive), an experience (Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria) or a stereotype (lazy, weird).

A lens is a flexible way of seeing: an idea, perspective or framework that shifts and sharpens as our understanding grows. Labels can feel fixed, but looked at through the right lens they become more useful and less limiting.

Labels are identity, not just semantics

We all rename ourselves depending on the room we’re in, much like choosing a job title. Sometimes a label is aspirational, and sometimes it describes who we’ve always been. A label can also unlock support, money or understanding, and sometimes one label (ADHD) can replace a less welcome one (lazy).

Notice the lenses you’re wearing

Lenses choose what stays in scope and what gets left out. A lens that isn’t fit for purpose distorts what we see, and sends our attention to the wrong things. But neither labels nor lenses are the reality itself. What’s real is lived experience, such as getting the support you need at the end of a process built on acronyms and policies, or the follow-up to a conversation rather than the idea of one.

Use a lens as a way to help you notice, not something to wear all the time.

Three usage tips!

The conversation about how to refer to ND people is ongoing and ever-changing. Here are some good rules of thumb:

  • Prioritize the person, not the clinical label. In writing, this may look like capitalizing the label when it refers to an identity (even if it is also a clinical term). In conversation, this sounds like using identity- first language (an Autistic person) over person- first language (a person with Autism).
  • Avoid othering. Don’t refer to us as “other people”, “them” or “they” where a more inclusive phrasing would work instead.
  • Most importantly, go with the language that the person you are talking to prefers. When in doubt, ask them.

What would you add about lenses and labels? Or your helpful usage tips?

Now onto this week's book updates…

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One month until Lens Not Label launches!

It's just one month away! We're planning the launch event now, signing book stickers, and assembling a Street Team to support our promotion efforts.

Pete Wicks on the TV and my own Terry the rescue Pug kept me company as I reached the halfway point of signing 300 stickers to go in the books. The stickers are now with Nathan, then Claire, and then hopefully to YOU, Reader. Pre-order the book here and stay tuned for more info on how you can get your triple-signed sticker.

We can't contain our gratitude!

WOW! We received 1210 reactions and comments to our first and very rough draft of Uncontained! We are overwhelmingly grateful to our beta readers and the book will be immensely improved because of every one of them.

We are incorporating everything now, which has given us a lot to consider. For this and several other reasons, we’ve decided to push the launch date to January. This gives us several huge advantages, the most important being that the book will be as wildly inclusive and wisely uncontained as it can possibly be. Can't wait to share more with you on that.

Until then, here's a quick visualization of our 20+ beta readers' experience of the book:

Some interesting patterns! I am very delighted and amused by the fact that the most loved chapter was also the most confusing. Here's to the next draft being more of the former and less of the latter.

There's still so much to say here, but I'm saving it for even more exciting announcements to share next week.

If you're loving these updates and want to get more involved in either book, please reply to let us know. We're recruiting for supporters to help us promote Lens Not Label and Uncontained, and seeking a few more beta readers for this next round of Uncontained, too. As little or as much as you wish to get involved.

Signing off for the 301st time,
Kim


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If you want to have more effective conversations, we invite you to see things differently with us. Every Friday we offer a new lens on neurodiversity. Plus tips, free resources, and updates on the upcoming books: Lens Not Label and Uncontained.

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