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2 October 2026


Happy Friday, Reader. How was your week? It's been another exciting one here and I can't wait to share the latest with you!

But first, let's dive into our lens on neurodiversity. Fresh from the draft of Uncontained, this week we're exploring Dr. Nick Walker's concept of neuroqueering:

Neuroqueer started its journey as a verb,

“the practice of queering (subverting, defying, disrupting, liberating oneself from) neuronormativity and heteronormativity simultaneously.”

Like many ideas, it has taken on a linguistic life of its own. As Walker says,

“the adjective form of neuroqueer can also serve as a label of social identity. One can neuroqueer, and one can be neuroqueer. A neuroqueer individual is any individual whose identity, selfhood, gender performance, and/or neurocognitive style have in some way been shaped by their engagement practices of neuroqueering, regardless of what gender, sexual orientation, or style of neurocognitive functioning they may have been born with.”

Walker provides a list of what neuroqueering means in practice, including:

“Engaging in practices intended to undo and subvert one’s own cultural conditioning and one’s ingrained habits of neuronormative and heteronormative performance, with the aim of reclaiming one’s capacity to give more full expression to one’s uniquely weird potentials and inclinations.”

And it goes beyond the individual. Neuroqueer practice also involves “working to transform social and cultural environments in order to create spaces and communities – and ultimately a society – in which engagement in any or all of the above practices is permitted, accepted, supported, and encouraged.”

So with that in mind, we offer these question prompts to ponder:

  • how might you embrace what’s unique and unconventional about what you do?
  • and how might you foster spaces that enable others to do the same?

For more on this, check out Dr. Nick Walker's article: Neuroqueer, an Introduction​

Now onto this week's book updates…

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Uncontained and Unboxed

​Last week we sprinted to finish the book draft for Uncontained. It’s now with the beta readers, which is my absolutely favourite part. There’s really nothing like letting a neurodiverse group of readers loose on your manuscript. The range of thought, eye for detail and willingness to share has been simply incredible and the book will be 1000 times better for it.

We've been using an app called Help This Book, which is simple and amazing. The feedback comes to you in all sorts of ways, but this is one of my favourite views:

I am thrilled that 'Reconnecting to Coaching and Why We Do It' is a standout chapter. You love it…and it needs loads of work! (And you've thoughtfully shown us just how we might do that.)

In equally if not more exciting news, we unboxed our other book this week, Lens Not Label:

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I loved this moment. And yet I'm also reminded of how nervous and clumsy I can get…as demonstrated by being unable to open a simple box!

(I made a mental note for future unboxings…it's perfectly OK to partially open the box in advance. These are things you can do.)

What a week! Did yours have any fun fumbles and/or helpful highlights? I'd love to hear…hit reply and share.

Hilariously and imperfectly yours,
Kim


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